Dating an aloof girl
Letting a man pursue you doesn’t mean that you can’t let him know that you’re interested.
Give him the green light to proceed and trust that if he likes you, he will.
To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
You can flirt with him, ask for his number, and even plan and pay for the date. Essentially, you can do what you feel will make you feel good. When you meet a guy that you think is great and you want to be in a serious relationship with him, but he’s dropping the ball it’s not your job to take the reigns.
When you meet a guy that you like but he’s not moving the relationship forward by calling, texting, or planning future dates, it’s natural to wonder, “What should I do?
When you think about letting a man pursue you, consider letting him take the lead when it makes sense for him to do so.
Don’t try to fill in the gaps for where he should be showing interest and isn’t.
But fueled by insecurity, and the belief that it won’t happen unless you make it happen, can lead to a really unhappy experience.
It is perfectly acceptable for a woman to show unequivocal interest in a man.
You don’t want the man to worry that you’re not interested.
There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.
Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?