Etiquette of dating
Certain topics of discussion should be out of bounds - your ex, your weight, your illnesses, your losses on the stock exchange … And avoid making comments that could be taken amiss …”Your hair looked much blonder in your photo,” or “You don’t really mean to say you believe in astrology, do you?”, or telling the other person what they ought or ought not to do …”You shouldn’t put so much salt on your food.It can be too easy simply to disappear into Internet anonymity or to behave in a way that wouldn’t be acceptable in ‘real life’. The fallout “You might think you’re being a gentleman asking what she'd be happy doing, but you'll just look like a wimp,” says dating coach James Preece. Your move Plan the date in advance (see next slide), and don’t run it by her.
If, for example, a man who has a moustache gets in touch with a woman who says she doesn’t like beards, he needs to play things carefully!It’s also important to strike the right tone: you don’t want to sound formal or cold, but, equally, you want to sound relaxed rather than over-familiar.It’s also a good idea of avoid projecting into the future and saying things like “We could do this together …”, and when it comes to the sign-off, ‘Yours sincerely’ is obviously out of place, but ‘Love and kisses’ can seem a bit premature.It is still highly acceptable for a man to help a woman on with her coat, or at the very least to hand it to her.He should also offer to walk her to her car, bus, train or whatever.